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Rejection is fun when you can learn from it and grow as a wiser person!!!

Dealing with Rejection is one of those situations that can make or break a person. If you fear rejection then you are not prepared for it. There is always a learning experience from rejection that you can use to grow and surpass any negative emotions. Always look at the bright side. It is not the end of the world, A opportunity was just opened for the right situation that best fits your world to enter. You must remember that after every storm the sun rises after darkness you will always see the light and after every rejection you have gained the understanding on how to succeed in the next opportunity. Keep telling yourself this until you believe and own it!!!

Here are 7 steps to grow and Shine out of a rejection:

1. Understand what depression is.  It is easy to fall into depression after any rejection. If you understand the definition of depression and can point it out when you feel it then you can stop depression from taking over your life at anytime.
2. Do Not Hide Away. Go Out and Have Fun. Misery loves company. Do not fall into the trap!!!!
3. Do not talk about the situation in a sorrow way. Talk about it in a happy reliving way. You are not the victim. You just just learned something new and shall succeed with your next opportunities.
4. Remember that because of this rejection there are now greater opportunities heading your way.
5.  Take a look at the situation and learn from it.
6. Study your part, Learn your part and ask yourself what could you have done differently.
7.  Be Strong, Be Happy, Have Fun and always Remember the law of attraction.

When dealing with rejection, use this experience as a learning phase and a step forward into the right direction. Understand and believe that this rejection has made you a stronger and wiser person. Most importantly you learned something about yourself. Use this experience and others that come in a positive way  for the rest of your life. Trust me you will be able to help someone who may be going through a similar experience and guide them in a honorable way. Be strong and use the law of attraction. You will get what you set your mind on consciously and subconsciously. Envision what you want, receive it even if you do not literally have it you must feel it and own it. Now live like you have it and own it!!! Stand proud, Walk tall and Shine!!!

Long ago in a small, far away village, there was a place known as the House of 1000 Mirrors. A small, happy little dog learned of this place and decided to visit. When he arrived, he bounced happily up the stairs to the doorway of the house. He looked through the doorway with his ears lifted high and his tail wagging as fast as it could. To his great surprise, he found himself staring at 1000 other happy little dogs with their tails wagging just as fast as his. He smiled a great smile, and was answered with 1000 great smiles just as warm and friendly. As he left the house, he thought to himself, “This is a wonderful place. I will come back and visit it often.”

In this same village, another little dog, who was not quite as happy as the first one, decided to visit the house. He slowly climbed the stairs and hung his head low as he looked into the door. When he saw the 1000 unfriendly looking dogs staring back at him, he growled at them and was horrified to see 1000 little dogs growling back at him. As he left, he thought to himself, “That is a horrible place, and I will never go back there again.”

All the faces in the world are mirrors. What kind of reflections do you see in the faces of the people you meet?

We all are unique individuals, no matter how much we try to looks like someone else, no matter how hard you try to act like someone else. How many of us can honestly be yourself at all time. I work at a take-a-way store, I have to smile at all time too but there are moments when you can be yourself if you want but we are taking the mask back to home, back to your closes ones. I am not forcing anyone anything as I am just at trying phase. Again, knowing, realizing and accepting are different levels.

(you can know/heard the earth is a sphere, you can make mathematical measurements to make you really realize it but it doesn’t mean you accepting the earth is a sphere, the only way to truely accepting is to make a world trip or go outer space.
You can know smoking is bad, you will realize it when you your health is not so going but that doesn’t mean you are accepting it, the only way to truely accepting is to stop.)

Just bear in mind, you and we are wearing a mask most of the time, therefore we are not ourself. We act and say things what you think/learned it should be that fits the morality, ok here it comes, so you were never yourself at the fullest (not even close). You go married (or at the point you 2 are that close to that)
you finally expressing yourself a little by little, even not, you and we all just change by the seconds.
You cannot force or supress someone to stay the way he/she was at the moment you love him/her. Thats the whole point.